Confucius said, "A wise man questions himself, a fool others." Look into the mirror and see what stares back at you. Do you see anything at all? Gaze into a pond. What does your reflection tell you? Do not worry about what others have done or not done, worry instead about what you have done or not done. If you wish to find fault, look within rather than externally. It is through this, that great inner strength is forged.