Stay in the real. To do otherwise is to become friends with illusion. Do not take things for granted for they may disappear in a moment. Pay attention and be mindful of all around you. To be aware is to be alive. The butterfly measures its moments in minutes, yet has time. Buddha was asked what he was, and he said “I am awake”. The one who is asleep at the wheel tumbles over the side and into the ravine. Lao Tzu said that integral wisdom involves a direct participation in every moment.