If you want to become whole, you must first realize that you are broken. If you wish to be straight, you must first admit you are twisted. It you want to become empty, you must first realize you are full. To find the Dao, you must not chase after it. It will come to you. Get out of the artificial and into the real; a new environment, new friends. Let your friends be the rising sun, the wind through the pines, the rain falling, the moon crossing the sky.