Each person has the right to make their choices regarding their destiny. They may choose unwisely, but the decision is theirs alone, to make. Once they have chosen, they then must live with the consequences of their decisions. Often too, others must live with this destiny. People often look to blame others for a destiny that they do not like, when the fault lies within the complainer. I have a friend who recently began working full time once more after quite a few years of just working part time. He recently told me that he felt as if life was going by on the outside, while he remained stuck at work inside. He blamed the job for this feeling. Yet, was it not him who took the job? Was it not he who said he wanted more money so he was going to work full time? It was the not the job that chose his destiny, but he himself. The blame lies in the mirror.
